What was the last thing you did for play or fun?
[ What Was The Last Thing You Did For Play Or Fun? ]
[ What You Do For Fun Has Evolved Over The Years ]
[ You & Your Wife Was Blessed/Cursed With The Birth Of A Boy In October Of 2002 ]
[ You Say Blessed Because Your Wife Carried Him To Full-Term & He Came Out Healthy ]
[ We Tried The Best We Could As Parents ]
[ We Raised Him In A House, Only Moving Twice. We Have Been Married Not Quite (30yrs) (3•16•1996) & Have Lived In This House Since March Of 2008. In Neighborhoods, Close To Schools, Close To Parks, Non-Violent Area, No Separations Marriage Wise ]
[ You Guess You Say The Negative Things That We Did Was Spoil Him, He Never Wanted For A Thing! ]
[ You Thought You Would Find Joy & Fun Being A Dad ]
[ That Was Not Meant To Be ]
[ He Was Explosive & Negative & Then Very Calm & Sweet ]
[ We Had Him Seeing Therapists & Other Dr.’s ]
[ He Became Very Competitive, Disrespective & Angry With You ]
[ He Disliked Any Attention That Your Wife Gave You & Competed For Her Time. You Are The Husband & The Father, Not The Competition ]
[ The Son Turned Caustic In The House, In The Family & In The Marriage ]
[ 7/14/2021 Is What You Call YOUR Independence Day ]
[ Our Son Moved Out. He Started Growing Up Where He Lives, He Likes His Roommates, He Has Been Employed Since 2021 ]
[ But Now He Has Become Disrespectful Towards Your Wife. THAT Is What You Won’t Be Okay With. When He TRIES To Be Disrespectful To You, You Smile Or Chuckle. The Much Wanted/Hoped For (By You) Father/Son Connection Was Long Gone. But Disrespecting The Parent That Brought Him Into This World Lights Your Fire. Your Wife Has Stated That You Can Have A Very Sharp Tongue & She Is The Only Barrier Between You & Him. You Have Never Been Physical With Him & @ (62yrs) Old, Physical Play With Your Disrespectful Son Is Way Behind You. Now He Does Not Talk With Either Of Us ]
[ The Reason For Writing All Of That Word Vomit Was To Explain How Fun Can Unexpectedly Change ]
[ What Do You Do For Fun Now, Late In Life? ]
[ You Spend As Much Time As You Can With Your Wife ]
[ You Enjoy Being Around Your Dream Team Of Caregivers ]
[ You Love Writing As Long As The Words Keep Flowing ]
[ You Love Playing Word Games That Constantly Challenge Your Mind ]
Mahalo,
~ Lopaka DeVoe ~
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