What’s something you’ve done that your past self would be proud of?

[ What Would Your Younger Self Be Proud Of? ]

[ Well, You Used To Be Proud Of How Long You Had Been Married ]

[ Now That You Are Going Through A Divorce, You Kind Of Feel Embarrassed That It All Fell Apart! ]

[ But The Ship Had Many Holes In It ]

[ Way Too Many To Shore Up ]

[ You Were A (3x) World Record Holder In Powerlifting Bench Press ]

[ You Have Not Touched Alcohol In Over (30yrs) ]

[ Drugs/Alcohol Have Not Taken Your Life Like Your Dad & (2) Siblings ]

[ You Taught Yourself How To Write Poetry Over (9yrs) Ago ]

[ You Have Not Committed Suicide Like Your Father Did ]

[ Through All Of The Shit You Have Been Through Your Whole Life, You Still Have A Positive & Loving Soul ]

Mahalo,

~ Lopaka DeVoe ~

What’s one thing you know now that would have saved your younger self a lot of pain?

[ The Thing That Would Have Saved You Alot Of Pain Would Be Really Listen To Your Gut ]

[ If She Is Going To Cheat On You From The Start & Your Gut Feels She Will Do It Again, You Should Have Listened To Your Gut ]

Mahalo,

~ Lopaka DeVoe ~

What’s the weirdest movie you’ve ever watched?

[ What Video? ]

[ You Would Have To Say That It Would Be Watching Your Wedding Video. Then Asking Yourself Now, More Than (30yrs) Later, “Why The Hell Did I Do That?” ]

Mahalo,

~ Lopaka DeVoe ~

Tell us about your morning routine.

[ Morning Routine ]

[ When You Wake-Up, You Immediately Wonder Why You Woke Up? ]

Mahalo,

~ Lopaka DeVoe ~

The genie grants you a wish. What is it?

[ What Would Be Your Wish? ]

[ Your Wish Would Be That The Next Chapter In Your Life Would Be Free Of Heartbreak & Pain, Be Filled With People You Love & Love You, & Make Whatever Remaining Years Full Of Love, Joy & Worth Living. Cut Ties With All The Negative People That Only Want To Bring You Down ]

Mahalo,

~ Lopaka DeVoe ~

Which relationship has taught you the most about yourself?

[ Which Relationship? ]

[ You Believe The Relationship That You Had With Your Ex-Wife Taught You The Most About Yourself ]

[ It Pointed Out Your Strengths ]

[ It Pointed Out Your Weaknesses Also ]

[ You Found How Codependent You Became With Your Wife ]

[ You Thought That Your World Would Crumble Without Her In Your Life ]

[ Now You Have Found That You Are Much Stronger Without Her ]

[ You Have Found That There Is Life After Divorce ]

[ So That Relationship Taught Me Alot About Myself! ]

Mahalo,

~ Lopaka DeVoe ~

Do you believe in karma?

[ Do You Believe In Karma? ]

[ Believe In Karma? ]

[ You Have Spent Your Whole Adult Life Hoping That There Is Such A Thing As Karma ]

Mahalo,

~ Lopaka DeVoe ~

What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?

[ What Is The Most Spontaneous Thing You’ve Ever Done? ]

[ Probably Answering This Question ]

Mahalo,

~ Lopaka DeVoe ~

How do you make time for self-care?

[ You Have The Opposite Problem ]

[ You Have Too Much Time On Your Hands ]

[ You Are In Your New Apartment, (24/7), Except When Your Caregivers Takes You To An Appointment ]

[ You Don’t Have A Job Because Of Your Disability ]

[ You Don’t Drive Because Of Your Disability ]

[ You No Longer Have A Wife ]

[ Your Primary Human Contact Are Your Caregivers ]

[ But You Have The Best Caregivers That You Have Ever Had, Now ]

Mahalo,

~ Lopaka DeVoe ~

What’s the best advice you’d give to someone younger than you?

[ The Advice You Would Give Someone Younger Would Be Love Does Not Last Forever ]

Mahalo,

~ Lopaka DeVoe ~