(601)▪︎[ What A Horrible Visit … 7•21•2021 ]

[ This Home Visit Was A Disaster From The Get-Go ]
[ The When, Was What We Did Not Know ]
[ So … ]

[ It Was Within The First (2) Hours ]
[ When Everything Went Sour ]

[ Then His Actions & Words Reminded His Mom About Why
     He Was Moved ]
[ He Came Here To Knock Me Out Of My Groove ]

[ When He Turned Into A Problem ]
[ I Would Not Let Him! ]

[ To Continue On This Path ]
[ He Was Making As Much Sense ]
[ As Trigonometry Math ]

[ When He Demanded That We Take Him Home ]
[ My Reaction Was Soon To Be Shown ]

[ I Told Him ( OKAY, LET’s GO! ) ]
[ He Counted On Me Saying ( NO! ) ]

[ The Way That I Was In The Past ]
[ I Knew Could Not Last ]

[ He Used To Leave Footprints On My Back ]
[ A Straight, Solid Spine Is What I Lacked ]

[ So Into My Life Came This Strong Willed, Stubborn & No
     Nonsense Caregiver For Me ]
[ She Really Taught Me How Things SHOULD Be ]

[ One Time Her Grandson Stole Her Credit Card ]
[ She Did Not Just Dismiss It Because He Was A Kid ]
[ No, She Let The Justice System Come Down On Him,
     Really Hard ]

[ I Listened & Learned From This Woman Who Seemed So Wise ]
[ This Woman Does Not Bullshit Through Her Life ]
[ Or Let Anybody Get Over On Her By Telling A Handful Of Lies ]

[ She Taught Me Well ]
[ She Told Me To Use My Five Senses ]
[ Especially My Sense Of Smell ]

[ If A Situation Smells Like Bullshit, It Probably Is ]
[ & To Never Get Bent Out Of Shape ]
[ From An Occasional Diss ]

[ But B.D. Loved To Test My Patience To No End ]
[ Now When He Does Something That I Don’t Like ]
[ I Know Longer Pretend ]

[ That Something He Did Does Not Bother Me Now ]
[ When I React With A ( WOW! ) ]

[ ( WHO DOES HE THINK HE IS RIGHT HERE? ) ]
[ I No Longer React With A Submissive ( OH DEAR ) ]

[ Maybe He Does Not Like This Straight, Strong Spine ]
[ Of Mine ]

[ It Has Been Rough ]
[ Being On The Path, To Becoming This Tough ]

[ When I Kept Saying That It Was Time For Him To Say
     ( BYE-BYE ) ]
[ All He Did Was Sit There & Cry ]

[ When I Went Near Him & Asked ( WHAT IS THIS ALL ABOUT? ) ]
[ He Would Stop & Shout ]
[ ( I WANT TO HAVE A DO-OVER! ) ]
[ When I Would Say ( THEY DO NOT EXIST IN REAL LIFE )
     He Would Pout ]
[ Then I Said ( THIS IS THE REASON WHY YOU WERE MOVED
     OUT! ) ]

[ I Kept Moving Him Towards The Door ]
[ I Kept Telling Him ( DON’t BRING YOUR DRAMA HERE
     ANYMORE ) ]

[ He Thought He Could Come Here To Throw A Rock Into Our
     Calm Pond ]
[ That, Right Then & There ]
[ Was When His Thinking Went Wrong ]

[ He Quickly Found ]
[ That His Thinking Errors Were Abound ]
[ & One Thing That He Did Not Figure On ]
[ Was That I Would Stand My Ground ]

[ We Were Finally Able To Drive Him Back To Where He Now
     Lives ]
[ When He Comes Here ]
[ He Still Has No Respect To Give ]

[ But He Can Now Take His Circus Act On The Road ]
[ Because Of His Temper ]
[ This Visit Was Blown ]

[ Better Luck Next Time ]
[ So Be On The Look-Out For Another Rhyme ]

~ Ka hopena ~

[  Mahalo iā ‘oe  ]
[  A hui hou mākou  ]
[  Aloha  ] ‎ 
  ‎
[  Na  ]
[  Lopaka DeVoe ]









(116)▪︎[ Today’s Youth … 2•7•2020 ]

[ Has This Generations Youth ]
[ Ever Been Honest & Told The Truth? ]

[ Not To Sound Cranky & Mean ]
[ But Those Instances Are Few & Far In-Between ]

[ He Blames Me, The Adult ]
[ For His Behavior ]
[ & Problems That Are All His Fault ]

[ I Didn’t Raise Him To Curse @ Me ]
[ Also, This Is Far From What I Would Have Wanted Him To Be ]

[ After Years & Years Of Using Words To Cut ]
[ I Have Learned When & Where To Keep My Mouth Shut ]

[ Oh I Could Slice Him To Pieces ]
[ In Front Of My Nephews & Nieces ]

[ Where Would That Get Me By Treating Him That Way? ]
[ On That Day? ]

[ All It Would Get Me Is An Attack ]
[ As All Of The Other Adults Would Talk Smack ]
[ & I Would Get Nothing That I Care To Hear From Him ]
[ As He Talked Back ]

[ Day-In & Day-Out ]
[ I Get Nothing From The Words That He Shouts ]

[ His 18th Birthday Can’t Get Here Soon Enough ]
[ I Would Really Like To Say { PACK YOUR STUFF } ]
[ & Then Off! ]

[ & Take Your Bad-Ass Self ]
[ & Go Live With Someone & Somewhere Else ]

[ See How Fast Some Other People Will Force You Out Because
You Are Not Pulling Your Own Weight ]
[ They Will Probably Give You A Specific Date ]

[ To Get Your Act Together & Do What Needs To Be Done ]
[ Because They Are Probably Not Having Much Fun ]
[ Maybe One Of Them ]
[ Might Pull A Gun ]

[ There Will Not Be Someone Picking Up After You ]
[ & Because You’ll Have A Roommate Or Two ]
[ Who’ll Get Tired Doing What You Are Supposed To Do? ]

[ One Of Your Biggest Wishes ]
[ Will Not Be Always Skipping The Responsibility ]
[ When It’s Your Time To Do The Dishes ]

[ Everybody Has Things To Do Around The Apartment
Or House ]
[ You Can’t Always Get Out Of Bed ]
[ & Drop Down On The Couch ]

[ That Definitely Would Test The Bonds Of Friendship By Making
It Wear Thin ]
[ Then Maybe Someday You Will Be Locked Outside ]
[ & No One Will Let You In ]

[ So We Circle Back To Telling You That Your Mouth Always
Gets You Into Trouble ]
[ Well, Reality Is Going To Burst That Big Bubble ]
[ Barney Rubble ]

~ Ka hopena ~

[  Mahalo iā ‘oe  ]
[  A hui hou mākou  ]
[  Aloha  ] ‎ 
  ‎
[  Na  ]
[  Lopaka DeVoe ]

(110)▪︎[ Thoughts Go ‘Round & ‘Round … 2•5•2020 ]

[ Where Do Thoughts Go, When They Are Not
Picked Out & Used? ]
[ Do They Rattle Around The Brain ]
[ Until It Looks Bruised? ]

[ That Does Not Sound Productive ]
[ What If The Brain Erupted? ]

[ From All Of The Abuse? ]
[ Could They Know The Reason ]
[ Or Would They, Make Up An Excuse? ]

[ What Good Reason Would They Have? ]
[ The Eruption, Bruised Almost (1) Half ]

[ Does That Half, Shrivel Up & Die? ]
[ What If The Change ]
[ Would Make Them Lie? ]

[ They Don’t Want To Be One Of Those Guys ]
[ Who Just Walks Around & Tells Lies ]

[ They End Up Being Friendless ]
[ & Then From Despair ]
[ They Become Homeless ]

[ So They’d Be Out Of A Job ]
[ Because They Lied Too Much To The Boss That’s Bob ]

[ Bob, The Boss ]
[ Is Sorry For Their Loss ]

[ But They Can’t Keep On Telling Lies When They Were Lost ]
[ Because Bob Showed Them The Cost ]

[ That Is Why I Play The Host ]
[ Of This Post ]

~ Ka hopena ~

[  Mahalo iā ‘oe  ]
[  A hui hou mākou  ]
[  Aloha  ] ‎ 
  ‎
[  Na  ]
[  Lopaka DeVoe ]

(104)▪︎[ Happy Birthday … 2•4•2020 ]

[ Happy Birthday To One Of The Most Important Women
In My Life ]
[ There’s You & My Beautiful Wife ]

[ Okay, Well I Guess There’s Only Mainly Two ]
[ There’s Nicole & You ]

[ I Hope You Are Having A Great Day ]
[ & That Your Boys Are Treating You Like A Queen In Every
Way ]

[ You Are The Only BFF I’ve Ever Had ]
[ The Amount Of Time Since Our Last Visit ]
[ Makes Me Sad ]

[ But I Always See ]
[ When I’ve Needed, You Have Always Been There For Me ]

[ Thank You For The Days, Weeks, Years Of Being There ]
[ Oh, The Stories We’ve Shared ]
[ I Write This Out Of Love ]
[ & Because I Care ]

[ Happy Birthday, BFF ]
[ Love You ]
[ Robert ]

~ Ka hopena ~

[  Mahalo iā ‘oe  ]
[  A hui hou mākou  ]
[  Aloha  ] ‎ 
  ‎
[  Na  ]
[  Lopaka DeVoe ]

(102)▪︎[ I Thought So … 2•3•2020 ]

[ Have You Ever Found Yourself In A Situation You Can’t
Talk About? ]
[ Does It Make You Pout? ]
[ Or Do You Just Want To Stand Up & Walk Out? ]

[ Does Either One ]
[ Make You Want To Run? ]
[ Because This Is No Longer Fun? ]

[ Who Says That You Have To Find A Way ]
[ & Reasons ]
[ To Stay? ]

[ Nobody Is Forcing Your Hand ]
[ Or Making Demands ]

[ What Will It Take For You To Stay Put? ]
[ Another Inch Or A Foot? ]

[ But Things Like This, Can Make You Sad ]
[ Because, You No Longer Have A Dad ]

[ But That Positional Role Model Left Your Life A Long, Long
Time Ago ]
[ For The Exact Reasons You Never Did Know ]

[ He Made Up Some Big Scenario In His Brain ]
[ That He Told Himself Again & Again ]
[ But What Was There To Gain? ]

[ For Shame, For Shame ]
[ Putting It On Your Shoulders That You Were To Blame ]
[ He Had The Wrong Name ]

[ He Should Have Picked Up A Mirror ]
[ & Looked ]
[ Then Said ( THE PERSON TO BLAME IS RIGHT HERE! ) ]

[ But He Just Couldn’t & Wouldn’t Do That To Himself ]
[ He Only Had The Balls To Blame Someone Else ]

[ What Should You Expect ]
[ Him Feeling Guilty Of Neglect? ]
[ That Would Take Away From His Own Self-Respect ]
[ & Give Him Time To Reflect? ]

[ It All Comes Full Circle Back To You ]
[ What Would You Do? ]
[ Would You Have Reacted The Same Way, Too? ]

[ I’d Have To Say ( NO ) ]
[ I Thought So ]

~ Ka hopena ~

[  Mahalo iā ‘oe  ]
[  A hui hou mākou  ]
[  Aloha  ] ‎ 
  ‎
[  Na  ]
[  Lopaka DeVoe ]

(101)▪︎[ Thankful For Marriage … 2•2•2020 ]

[ Dear Marriage, This Is A Letter Of Thanks ]
[ From One Very Happily Married Man, To You ]
[ There Was Never Enough Money In The Banks ]
[ To Keep Me From Saying ( I DO ) ]

[ @ The Right Time ]
[ In The Right Place ]
[ So I’m Able To Write A Good Rhyme ]
[ Without Feeling Like A Disgrace ]

[ You Need A Licence To Get Married ]
[ But It Doesn’t Come With An Instructional Booklet ]
[ You Shouldn’t Expect To Get Carried ]
[ By Someone That You Just Met ]

[ Your Engagement May Have Been Long ]
[ Or It May Have Been A Few Days ]
[ Did The Time Make Your Bond Strong? ]
[ Did You Find That You Can Love Each Other In All Different
Kinds Of Ways? ]
[ If Something Goes Wrong ]
[ What Incentives Did You Give Your Spouse To Stay? ]

[ Do Unto Others As You Would Want ]
[ Make That Golden Rule A Mantra ]
[ Not A Taunt ]

[ When The Going Gets Tough, The Tough Does What? ]
[ They Rise & Shine ]
[ Even Though It Feels Like They’ve Been Kicked In The Gut ]
[ Always Be Kind ]
[ Never End A Compliment With A ( BUT … ) ]

[ That Added ( BUT … ) Ruins The Compliment Just By Itself ]
[ In Effect ]
[ You’re Also Saying That Whatever You’re Complimenting About
Can Be Done Better By Someone Else ]

[ Thank You Marriage For Teaching Me That Love Really Is A
Two-Way Street ]
[ Compromising Does Not Have To Happen Because You’re Weak ]
[ It Shouldn’t Leave You With The Feeling That You’ve Been Beat ]
[ Coming Together As A Couple Is What You Should Seek ]

[ In Dark Times Try To Remember The Good Feelings When You
Just Met ]
[ Aren’t Those The Good Thoughts That You Get ]

[ But Hey, Marriage & Monogamy Is Not For Everyone ]
[ That Lives ]
[ Some People Suck The Fresh Air Out Before Year One ]
[ They Take Instead Of Gives ]

[ There Are Lots Of Reasons Why So Few People Want To
Take That Huge Jump ]
[ Some People Don’t Know How To Get Out Of An Emotional Slump ]

[ Yes, Relationships Have Slumps ]
[ There’s No Such A Thing As A Smooth Road ]
[ That Doesn’t Have Some Bumps ]
[ Sometimes You Will Have To Carry The Load ]
[ While Taking Some Lumps ]

[ Marriage Can Take Your Emotions On The Ride Of Your Life ]
[ One Minute You’re Digging With A Bent Spoon ]
[ The Next Minute You’re Cutting With The Sharpest Knife ]
[ If You Are The Husband ]
[ There Will Be Times When You’ll Lean On Or Carry Your Wife ]

[ Marriage & All That Comes With It Can ]
[ Make You Into A Better & More Complete Man ]

[ [ Like The Grains Of Sand That Runs Through The Hourglass ]
[ Your Life Can Go By You Really Fast ]
[ Just Don’t Let The One That’s Meant To Be ]
[ Go Past ]

[ So Guess Which Way I Lean When It Comes To Marriage As
A Whole ]
[ I Whole Heartedly Believe In It Right Down To My Soul ]
[ That’s How This Square Peg Fits In A Round Hole ]

~ Ka hopena ~

[  Mahalo iā ‘oe  ]
[  A hui hou mākou  ]
[  Aloha  ] ‎ 
  ‎
[  Na  ]
[  Lopaka DeVoe ]

(598)▪︎[ My Grateful Journal … 7•19•2021 ]

[ My Gratitude Journal ]
[ That Should Not Be Thrown In A Urinal ]

[ I Am Grateful To Have A Loving Wife Of Over 25 Years ]
[ I Am Grateful That My Wife Helps Me Face My Fears ]

[ I Am Grateful To Have A Healthy 18 Year Old Son ]
[ I Am Grateful To Own A House That Protects Me From
     The Sleet, Snow, Rain & Too Much Sun ]

[ I Am Grateful To Have A King Sized Sleigh Bed ]
[ I Am Grateful That This Is Where I Can Lay My Head ]

[ In The Morning When I Rise ]
[ I Am Grateful My Wife Has Pillows On The Bed Where I
     Can Hide Any Surprise ]

[ I Am Grateful To Own A Car Without The Burden Of Car
     Payments ]
[ I Am Grateful That Buying Our Car Was A Mutual Agreement ]

[ I Am Grateful That We Have An Umbrella Insurance Policy
     That Puts My Mind @ Ease ]
[ I Am Grateful That Our Insurance Agent Explained It & I Said ( YES
     PLEASE! ) ]

[ I Am Grateful For The Handful Of Friends That Stand To My
     Right ]
[ They Are Always On My Mind Even Though They Are Out Of
     My Immediate Sight ]

[ I Am Very Grateful About Finding My Dog ]
[ 10 Years Ago ]
[ I Have Written A Few Stories About Her & Posted Them On My
     Blog ]

[ I Am Grateful That We Have The Ability To Put Food On
     Our Table For Our Meals ]
[ I Am Grateful That @ This Moment No One In Our House
     Steals ]

[ I Am Grateful That Whomever It Was, No Longer Lives In Our
     House ]
[ I Am Grateful That It No Longer Puts A Strain On Me
     & My Spouse ]

[ I Am Grateful That I Always Have Liquid To Drink ]
[ I Am Grateful That I Can Write Stories That Let Others
     Think ]

[ I Am Grateful That I Have Good Air To Breathe ]
[ I Am Grateful That I Am Honest With Others ]
[ Because I Do Not Keep Anything Up My Sleeve ]

[ I Am Grateful With How I Have Been Thinking ]
[ I Am Grateful That It Has Been Over 25 Years Since I
     Have Taken A Drink ]
[ I Am Grateful That I Have Never Succumbed To A Life Of
     Despair & Binge Drinking ]

[ I Am Grateful That I Found The Drive To Finish My
     College Education @ A Late Age ]
[ I Am So Grateful That I Had The Privilege To Walk Across
     That Stage ]

[ I Am Grateful About How Much Support I Got From My
     Wife To Help Me Stay Strong ]
[ & Eventually Show Don ]
[ That He Was 100% Wrong ]

[ I Am So Grateful That Don Gave Me The Boot To Live On
     My Own ]
[ Then I Was Able To Show Him That I Did Not Need Him ]
[ By When I Made It All Alone ]

[ I Am Grateful To See That My Son Is Thriving ]
[ Pretty Soon, Someone Will Teach Him The In’s & Out’s
     About Driving ]

[ I Am Grateful That Task Will Not Fall On My Shoulders, Now ]
[ I Will Let Someone Else Show Him How ]

[ I Am Very Grateful That I Have The Best Caregiver Whose
     Last Name Is Marler ]
[ She Gets Her Great Work Effort From Her Father ]

[ I Am Very Grateful About A Good Friend Named Hakeem ]
[ When It Comes To A Good Honest Friend ]
[ She Is A Dream ]

[ I Am Grateful When I Want Travel I Am Able To Fly ]
[ I Am Grateful That I Try To Be A Humble Guy ]

[ I Am Grateful For … ]
[ The Good Friends Who Walk Through Our Door ]

[ I Am Grateful To The Readers That Stop By ]


~ Ka hopena ~

[  Mahalo iā ‘oe  ]
[  A hui hou mākou  ]
[  Aloha  ] ‎ 
  ‎
[  Na  ]
[  Lopaka DeVoe ]

(597)▪︎[ The Road For Children … 7•19•2021 ]

[ For Our Children, The Road To Happiness & Success is
     Usually Paved By Our Example ]
[ Not By Ideas & Questions That Can Be Trampled ]

[ No Child Deserves Someone Rude ]
[ & That Excludes ]

[ Children Should Be Included In All Play That Is Child
     Like ]
[ By Playing Games & Being Taught How To Ride A Bike ]

[ Children Should Be Nurtured & Taught ]
[ Not Be Given Away ]
[ Or Bought ]

[ They Should Have Wonder In Their Eyes ]
[ & @ Such A Young Age ]
[ They Should Never Be Expected To Be Worldly & Wise ]

[ Children Need To Play, Play & Play ]
[ & Never To Be Worried About If They Won’t Be Able To
     Stay ]
[ Or Have The Threat Of Being Pushed Away ]

[ Everyday They Should Be Told To Their Face ]
[ That They Never Have To Worry About Having A Living
     Place ]

[ Kids In Foster Care Have Dreams ]
[ That Creates Screams ]

[ They Are Never Secure About Where They Will Be Living
     From One Day To The Next ]
[ A Message Concerning Another Move ]
[ Could Come Anyday Through A Message Or A Text ]

[ Children Should Feel Secure In Their Surroundings &
     In Those That Are In Their Lives ]
[ The Adults Should Always Be Their Guiding Light ]

~ Ka hopena ~

[  Mahalo iā ‘oe  ]
[  A hui hou mākou  ]
[  Aloha  ] ‎ 
  ‎
[  Na  ]
[  Lopaka DeVoe ]

(596)▪︎[ What Are Your Pro-Nouns? … 7•19•2021 ]

[ Now A Days When You Go To Town ]
[ You Really Have To Watch What You Say ]
[ When Someone Asks ( WHAT ARE YOUR PRO-NOUNS? ) ]

[ What Are My Pro-Nouns I Am Asked ]
[ By Someone Wearing A Mask ]

[ I Look @ Them & Say ( DO YOU HAVE THE NERVE … ) ]
[ ( TO ASK ME ABOUT MY USE OF VERBS? ) ]

[ I Say That I Am Way In The Dark ]
[ Trying To Figure Out Whether You Are A Marcia Or A
     Mark ]

[ When Someone That Used To Be Someone’s Brother ]
[ Now Marks That They Are Now An ( OTHER ) ]

[ Confuses Me To No End ]
[ It Is None Of My Business About Who Shares Your Bed ]

[ But When Others Really Try To Make It My Business I
     Say ( PLEASE, DON’t ) ]
[ Because If You Think That I Will Be Curious ]
[ I Have To Strongly Say ( UMM, I BET I WON’t ) ]

[ I Am Not That Curious About Who You Lay Down With
     @ Night ]
[ Just Like It Is None Of Your Business Whom I Am With
     When I Turn Off The Light )

[ I Do Not Object To Who Or How Often ]
[ The Only Thing That Will Concern Me Is If It Involves
     Young Children ]

[ That Is When & Where The Line Should Be Drawn ]
[ No Child Deserves To Be Played With Like Some Chess
     Pawn ]

[ They Legally Cannot Give Consent ]
[ They Never Should Be Given Away By One Of Their Parents ]

[ Or Be Used By One ]
[ When Or If I Hear That, Then I’m Done ]

[ Never Would Want To Hear Another Word ]
[ Then I Would Have To Let The Police Know What I Had
     Just Heard ]

[ So Let’s Not Go There ]
[ That Is One Thing That I Do Not Want You To Share ]

~ Ka hopena ~

[  Mahalo iā ‘oe  ]
[  A hui hou mākou  ]
[  Aloha  ] ‎ 
  ‎
[  Na  ]
[  Lopaka DeVoe ]

(599)▪︎[ What In Life … 7•20•2021 ]

[ You Have Spent Your Whole Life Trying To Figure Out
     What You Want Out Of Life ]
[ Everyday, You Have Looked For That Light ]
[ To Be A Guide ]

[ Many People Cannot Accept, Or See ]
[ The Hypocrisy ]

[ Of Other People’s Lives, Or Even Their Own ]
[ Because, In The Dead Of The Night, When They Wake ]
[ They Then See, That They Are In Fact, All Alone ]

[ It Is Critical ]
[ To See ]
[ How Hypocritical ]
[ Others Can Be ]

[ Most People Can Never See Themselves In Others ]
[ When They Make Mistakes ]
[ They Think That They Can Hide Amongst Their Sisters &
     Brothers ]

[ When They See That Others Might Have Some Success ]
[ They Forget About Their Own Mess ]
[ & Spend To Excess ]

[ On Credit Cards With High Interest Rates ]
[ Hoping Some Day ]
[ That Their Debts Magically Dissipates ]

[ Hoping To Be Fortuitous In Life ]
[ Hoping To Be Lucky In Love ]
[ When Or If They Find Their Husband Or Wife ]

[ Then Hoping That They Hit Every Green Light On The
     Road ]
[ Going To & From Their Happy Abode ]

[ Then Finding That Such Luck Does Not Even Exist ]
[ No Matter How Much They Insist ]

[ That It Does, Or Doesn’t ]
[ Because If There Was ]
[ They Will Quickly Find, That There Wasn’t ]

[ People Have A Hard Time Looking Within ]
[ They Never Want To Look In The Mirror & See Their Own
     Sin ]

[ When They Peer Deeply In Their Own Eyes ]
[ Do They See Their Lies? ]

[ That They Have Told To Themselves? ]
[ Or Told Someone Else? ]

[ I Bet They Won’t ]
[ I Bet They Don’t ]

[ So They Quickly Put The Handheld Mirror Down ]
[ Then They Look Around ]

[ Silence Is What They Hear ]
[ Because Nobody Is Near ]

[ So … No Harm, No Foul ]

~ Ka hopena ~

[  Mahalo iā ‘oe  ]
[  A hui hou mākou  ]
[  Aloha  ] ‎ 
  ‎
[  Na  ]
[  Lopaka DeVoe ]